The Blogs

The three blogs that I regularly write follow three different directions and complete three aims.


The first blog intents to show the art of self orientation. It is about building strong self-definition and to learn to make choices. Self-orientation is the freedom to make choices by choosing attitude and behavior that brings you towards your outlined results. The art is when you keep your orientation despite the people and circumstances and you act result-oriented.

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The second blog is for survivors of abusive relationships. The survivor state is the most fragile one, because at this stage the connection to the past is still stronger than the vision and intention towards the wished present and future. Survivors can fall or can have setbacks easily, so they need strong and appropriate support to go on with their journey.

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The third one is connected to narcissisism. If you browse the Internet, you find a lot of material about narcissism. However, I have a uniquely different attitude to narcissism from others. I want to present narcissism to you from a different point of view and with a different attitude.

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August 20, 2016

You don’t have to know all the answers, and that’s perfectly fine!

We are curious creatures, we want to know everything, because knowing everything gives us security. We believe that our knowledge will promote us, our knowledge will […]
July 4, 2016

6 reasons why becoming strong is a failure

When I started my NO CONTACT period (name of separation period in narcissistic slang) I decided to become strong. What a bald thing to do! Still […]
May 2, 2016

How NOT to help the victim

Let me bring you a couple of lines from my earlier blog post which you can read fully here. In this former blog post I show […]
April 30, 2016

What’s in the victim’s mind?

Chaos. Even if you still live in the dysfunctional relationship or you are already out of it, there is a big emotional and mental chaos in your head and […]