The Blogs

The three blogs that I regularly write follow three different directions and complete three aims.


The first blog intents to show the art of self orientation. It is about building strong self-definition and to learn to make choices. Self-orientation is the freedom to make choices by choosing attitude and behavior that brings you towards your outlined results. The art is when you keep your orientation despite the people and circumstances and you act result-oriented.

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The second blog is for survivors of abusive relationships. The survivor state is the most fragile one, because at this stage the connection to the past is still stronger than the vision and intention towards the wished present and future. Survivors can fall or can have setbacks easily, so they need strong and appropriate support to go on with their journey.

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The third one is connected to narcissisism. If you browse the Internet, you find a lot of material about narcissism. However, I have a uniquely different attitude to narcissism from others. I want to present narcissism to you from a different point of view and with a different attitude.

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August 28, 2016

Would you date with the male/female version of you?

I was watching a program called Death in Paradise on my computer, it was series 5, episode 2. Humphrey, the brilliant, but clumsy and insecure detective inspector […]
July 21, 2016

The effects of a toxic relationship on your children

I have first hand experiences with this one, as I grew up in a dysfunctional family, and also I raised my daughters while living in a dysfunctional […]
July 14, 2016

Fear based relationship vs. love based relationship

I’m a member of a large group where I often meet with – mostly – women, who live in typically dysfunctional relationships. To help them is […]
July 6, 2016

A narcissistic trait: people-pleasing

Aimee grew up in a huge family, she has 4 brothers. She is the only daughter of her parents, the second born child. During the university […]