The Blogs

The three blogs that I regularly write follow three different directions and complete three aims.


The first blog intents to show the art of self orientation. It is about building strong self-definition and to learn to make choices. Self-orientation is the freedom to make choices by choosing attitude and behavior that brings you towards your outlined results. The art is when you keep your orientation despite the people and circumstances and you act result-oriented.

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The second blog is for survivors of abusive relationships. The survivor state is the most fragile one, because at this stage the connection to the past is still stronger than the vision and intention towards the wished present and future. Survivors can fall or can have setbacks easily, so they need strong and appropriate support to go on with their journey.

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The third one is connected to narcissisism. If you browse the Internet, you find a lot of material about narcissism. However, I have a uniquely different attitude to narcissism from others. I want to present narcissism to you from a different point of view and with a different attitude.

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May 23, 2016

How to punish your children

The full title would be: how to punish your children, without becoming the authority for them. Since I’m busy with narcissism, victim mentality, self love and […]
April 6, 2016

How to deal with your broken inner child?

When you are from an emotionally dysfunctional family, your childhood was dysfunctional. I’ve just met this funny picture on Dr. Wayne W. Dyer‘s Instagram, and this […]
March 31, 2016

New self definition

This post is the fourth one in a series. You can read the first, the second and the third posts in order to get a picture and […]
March 29, 2016

Welcome to the Narcissistic Personality Islands!

In my last post I used the movie Inside Out to give you a little taste of building up and powering the personality islands, and how people […]